Yes! It is very nerve recking to start dating people after being hurt so many times. It is hurtful for a woman to know that most men figure that there are so many women in the world, that they can not be stuck on one. For women it is different. Women have many disadvantages as far as keeping a man around. The main disadvantage is that they are over populated. There are more females than males in the United States. This alone causes many problems for many women. A lot of women share their man, and more than likely do not know that he is being shared, which causes deaths, domestic abuse, hatred, and self-esteem issues. Another disadvantage is that many women are unsatisfied with the way they look so they hussle hard to achieve a certain look, which makes guys run away most of the time. Most men find those women to be too high maintenance and insecure. Not everyone is born with a significant amount of money to their name, so the men who have accepted that they do not have a lot of money will not dare approach one of those women. Unless they want to have their manhood taking away from them. High maintenance women also cause a disadvantage to women who already have a man and are established, these women come along and take the other woman's man because of their thirst to have what the other woman has.
This brings me to how real women need to be with themselves and the guy they are dating. You have to be honest when dating a person because it will save you a lot of heart ache and pain in the end. But how do you keep it real with someone that is not keeping it real with you? How do you know if the other person is being truthful? Here are some tips that you could use to really know what your guy is about:
1. Start off being nonchalant, not over excited when he calls or texts. If he is not digging your nonchalant attitude then he will not call again. But if he sees how much you are excited to here his voice then his work is done. Game is over.
2. Do not be available all the time for him. He will really try hard to reach you if he is digging your style and personality. But as a woman we need to keep ourselves busy and not so out there. (Notice: Most women who are married, have their own degrees, own a business, or are planning to run for president).
3. When you are young, you can still be responsible. This is one of the best characteristics to look for in a guy. He needs to have a plan B at all times. If he seems all over the place or uncertain about what he wants, then this guy is definitely bound to cheat or run away from you.
4. Pay attention to the way he starts off a conversation. If he is always about politics, sports, or video games, he probably is selfish and care nothing about women and what they do. Maybe women are only good for one thing. Ask questions, like "What do you think about a woman becoming president?" or "How much does your mother mean to you?"
It is important that women become much more particular about who they date and have sex with. Please add more tips....
